For I m weak THEN I m strong.

我願意打開弱點給人看嗎？我真很害怕。因為我怕羞愧，我怕被看低，我怕自己不接受自己。我不想別人知道。

然後，我很渴望用真的一面見人，我冒險，我開始把我的軟弱打開給別人看。我嘗試面對一下我自己。

每一次也很怕，每一次也猶豫。相反，每一次說出來後，我發現我的心越來越不怕，信心竟然愈來愈高。

原來，告訴別人，就是我們接受自己的時候。當自己接受自己，是很放開的一刻。原來，有弱點是很正常。每個人也有，還有很多tim lol。

然後，人的關係竟然拉近了。因為其他人覺得你真實，連你自己也覺得自己真實，慢慢，你不羞愧了。

我開始知道，我內心的恐懼其實不是真的，我幻想別人不接受我，我就用自己以為人喜歡的一面給人看。

最後，自己內心收起很多東西，很不開心。

連告訴人的勇氣也沒有，那如何克服更困難的問題呢？

我目標是成為激勵演說家，兩年多還沒有什麼成果，我把我自己害怕的，嘗試告訴你，因為我很想變，我想面對自己。

這是我第一次beta workshop，想你們給我一點意見。

我現在工作上還算可以。
在我失敗裡面學到很多想跟你們分享。
可能你們不知道
我曾經2次被勸離開
我曾經沒有同事喜歡我
我曾經4 次生意嘗試不成功
我曾經2次生意夥伴離開我
我曾經在所有的關係上沒有人喜歡我
在末路後，我找到方法。
我想把以前告訴你，希望你們從工作得到力量。

Please mark your calendar Dec10 ( Thu) , 7-10 pm.
如果你心裡面有問題，也可以WhatsApp 我95066478

我在預備我的 “Perform & be happy” workshop
我發現我曾經經歷很多不同的失敗
事業的失敗
生意的失敗
財務上的失敗
人格的失敗
關係的失敗
恐懼而失敗

但現在我還沒有認輸
反而失敗令我更堅強
如果你覺得自己已經沒力量站起來
可以聽聽我失敗的次數
現在竟然還可以這樣
或者你可以再站起來

Zoom Live Workshop
日期：12月10日禮拜四
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Zoom link👇
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This video reveals my secret investing in my first property at HKD 2.2 mil, collecting a rent of $9300 per month.

If you are reading and wonder if this is good or bad investment, don’t swipe pass this. You need this content!!

Use your lazy finger 🖕🏻 ( this finger not suggested) and hit on the play ▶️ button

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By the way, I m only a beginner but I still want to show what I know to you all 💓

For 30 years, I was thinking it is ok to accept something that isn’t your most desired. Why? Why do I have to accept anything less? Do you accept anything less than what you most desired in life?

I don’t want to accept it. I want to ask for the best in me. I want to excel! I want to work for it! Do you?

I was challenged by my coach 3 weeks ago about me waking up 5 am in the morning?
She said: without a purpose you can’t continue this effort for a long time.
She asked: “What’s your purpose?” Then I ask: Is my “purpose” fuelled by fear or passion? What do you feel passionate about? I have passion to help kids, I wanna cry when I helped them because they remind me of my past... I was a younger brother and I have a wrong belief since I was a kid that I should have a smaller share or something less than my brother. This thought grew bigger over the years and has made me accept less than what I truly desired. I would accept smaller portion of food, a smaller birthday gift and later on in my life, I accepted something less than I desired, I accept myself not performing my best...and told myself it’s okay.
That brought big consequences because not only I accept less from others, I accept less of myself and don’t demand so much of myself anymore. I convinced myself to accept mediocrity. That hurts...do you think something is wrong with this belief?

Deep in my heart I regretted that belief and I keep coming back, get up and fight again after several attempts as an entrepreneur, I still not sure what is going on inside of me. I have a fighter spirit but I didn’t realise deep inside, I wanted to ask for the best of me, that’s the real me. And I like to ask you, what is in the real you?

It was until my coach, she asked me about my purpose, deep inside I want more in life, I want my life to be bigger, much bigger. I want to put up a fight. I believe that I am whatever I want to be. I want to show any adults or kids, everyone has the right to ask for the best, never settle for mediocrity. I want to show everyone, they have the right, to demand for their best no matter who they are.
Go out and fight for whatever you want in life, demand more of yourself....

How to outperform in life? by KILLING the fear and self-sabotage of “ I m not good enough”!
This is a video about the fear and wrong belief we created ourselves at a very young age, making fear a habit of ourselves without noticing it is not even reality.
This video is going to help you to identify those bad messages you say to yourself and how you can turn that bad message into something that motivates you to outperformance in life.
I like to show you how did I form that message of "I am not good enough" during a very young age when I was about Age 7 - 10. There is a solution to that and i will show you how in the video
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Click 👉https://bit.ly/2KkXQZv to learn more my Zoom Live Event on May 30,2020 to share the 3 things to get whatever you want in life. I will condense my 15 years of pain in that workshop so you can fast forward and grow 15 years quicker. Don’t miss it 👇 https://bit.ly/2KkXQZv This is a video about the fear and wrong belief we have to ourselves at a very young age. This video is going to help you to identify those bad messages you say to yourself and how you can turn that bad message into something that motivates you to outperformance in life. Chinese Subtitle Available Check out the details of the Work Outperformance Workshop https://herbert-yau-42328.mindmint.co... Think yourself to win. If you act like everybody. You become a nobody. So Be Like You & Work your dream. Herbert Yau, property entrepreneur and a motivation speaker

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Have you ever asked yourself: Why am I sitting at the same work desk day after day? Could my life be any different? If you have, you are not alone. I went down as a business failure 5 years ago to up 2 properties.

The second property I bought in Apr 2019.
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​I like to show you 3 steps to outperform in Life. Watch the video for STEP 1....GO!

I like to offer you 3 steps, maybe something totally different from what you learnt in the past.

Something that you may never aware because it hides deep inside your brain that drives your action. It is those thoughts that drive you to take action or non-action.

I will help you to discover yourself what’s stopping you, turning those thoughts and beliefs into a powerful message to motivate you even in face of difficulties.

If you still reading, go ahead and watch the video right now!

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So we should observe it, identify it, and laugh at the anger itself, enjoy the observation. So we don’t hurt ourselves at the end. ( I think for anger is more difficult because I angry at the luggage, how funny!)


Then I remember the pain you have with timeville at dinner last night. Angry at them bring pain only onto ourselves. It isn’t worth it. So we should observe it, enjoy the observation and smile at it. It isn’t worth damaging our own health. That’s one of the reasons you not feeling well too, they caused you negative emotions effecting your health.


We shouldn’t wish them bad luck and laugh at the poor decision they made. Thinking habits remains the same all the time, if we don’t forgive others and move on, we aren’t able to move on when we made mistakes ourselves, we keep looping on our own mistakes and we tend to be tough on ourselves too.


We want to be kind to ourselves, and we should find an explanation to accept and forgive them. We all have 24 hours a day, we can choose to focus our time on growing ourselves or spending it in a negative way, giving up growth. It is our decision.


This is not a lecture to you. This is a reflection and the thinking process I m trying to organise so I can remind myself and re-use it when I need it.


Thanks for talking to me about your trouble, it inspires me to think deeper to help myself.

Think yourself to win. If you act like everybody. You become a nobody.
So Be Like You & Work your dream.


Herbert Yau, property entrepreneur and a motivation speaker

​I have been trying to save my life for the past 5 years. My jamsport business didn’t work because I feared I couldn’t come up with better ideas for the business, I was in argument over money with my basketball coaches. I was too scared about my next step for basketball training and I simply think quit. The whole thing went down. Looking back, it was my mindset that got me into trouble. I do not have persistence overcome difficulty, I was thinking too much about money than serving my customer and coaches right. 

I couldn’t remember how I got into Tony Robbins maybe it’s the incomplete episode of videos at YouTube which I found really helpful. I tried a couple of the exercise and I decided that I need the whole set. It was sep 9, 2015 I bought them at amazon. 

I remembered during that time, I still have mini storage at Solo Sheung Wan. I was working for Fion’s cousin Adrian at that time with a part time income of 15,000 for 3 days. I that I changed the CD into a mp3 file and putting them into my phone and listen to it in the toilet during lunch. It was the rocking chair method. I closed my eyes imagine if I stayed the same what would it be like in 5, 10, 15, 20 years ( sounds horrible isn’t it ?). I imagined sitting in the same seat with white hair and fat, probably with less income. I imagined if this is what I gonna be, my wife and daughters would leave me. I imagined being like my dad. I broke into tears and pain motivated me. Then, what’s good is the reverse part. Now coming back from 20 years to present, I feel so young, so energetic. I have so much time to change. I was so motivated. I did this visualisation at the toilet of the digital agency I worked for...argh....

For the past years, I seek self-help. I m into motivation, finding ways to protect my heart and safeguard my soul. 

I put in mind only what’s needed. I scrapped anything else that brought me into negativity, so everything in my mind is all good and kind. When I act good and kind, good and kind things came back to me. So your thought becomes your reality. Can you understand how good things come to you?

​If you look at the 3 topics in life - do speak and think. It is your thought that become reality. You accept what life bring to you, take it. Never accept anything less, strive for more. This is what the nature demands, trees grow big, they don’t grow smaller. 

May you learn all the secrets in life.

​Herbert Yau, property entrepreneur and a motivation speaker 
Go here to find out more about my motivation http://www.daddayout.com
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