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你会被旁边的人影响你的决定,你需要宁静的时间思考

12/18/2018

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​你有否发现在地铁时,你身边的人都在快跑,冲入门口,你也跟他们一起跑进去了。但其实你预早了时间,并不赶急。
人是被群体带动,煽动思想的动物。他们会在群体效应下失去理性。你会在压力下被迫跟其他人有一致的行为表现。


你有否试过在会议上,你有话想说,但却不敢说出口?我们考虑到我们的地位,整体环境的气氛,环境是否陌生。
可以在开会前,把整个会议过程思考一遍,并于开会前决定你的立场,是准备坐着等时间过?还是预备提供价值?你的定位会决定你的行为。


在开会前,你也可以试试幻想,在整个会议里,你一言不发,你想吗?
幻想这会议再开一次,你的选择是什么?趁着现在这事还未发生时,做对的选择!因为真的会议没有开始!


Live life as if a second time. What would you do? Viktor Frankl
我也是靠着这句话,在很多事情未发生前,如果我把这事情再做一次,我会如何选择!我不会因为恐惧而退缩,我会更勇敢做应该做的事。


有时我们说话太快,有时我们想说却不敢说。为自己增加宁静的时间及空间思考,在说话太快的情况下反思,为下一次作好准备。


在有话不敢说的时反思,放胆试一次,让体验跟你说话,不要每次留下后悔,悔恨自己没有行动。试想想其他人在这场合说话时,又被记下多少呢?一星期什么也忘记了,记得的只是当时人自己而已,对吗?


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