Inspired By Hal Elrod after his book Miracle Morning, I was crazy and honest enough to write a letter asking for feedback about my weakness. The letter below is what I wrote. I sent it to 10-11 family, friends and colleagues. I was brave enough to send within my company, to my immediate supervisor and team member. However, they didn’t feedback to me ( I desired their feedback actually)

Subject: Would love to get your opinion

If you like to know how I start writing the letter (go here) , it is how  I found my fear and act upon it

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Do you know why is it 5 am?

5am send a strong message to yourself. It shows that you are willing to turn your life upside down to make a change for your life.

It sends a strong message of determination that you have to make something happen. The behaviour speaks for itself that your mind can will your body to do whatever your mind thinks. So, you feel powerful.

It is message that you tell yourself that you are strong, you are good, you have confidence, you are in control. A message of self-affirmation because what you promise yourself to do, you make it happen.

5am is a good time. It is a new idea. It is exciting. People will think you are crazy. You feel proud achieving it. It changes your habit. It motivates you to change.
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5am sends a message to your friends, colleagues or even your staff. It shows your commitment, your self-control. You get respect. It tells them that you are trustworthy, whatever you want to do, you will have great influence on them. So it can help if you need to work with them, influence them or even lead them.

Doing the miracle morning can keep you feel energised and motivated.

The key is always persistence. We shall not expect that the 30 day challenge would get us what we want. We shall see it as a sign that we get to hang to take control of our own destiny.

I believe no success will come in an instant. You would have to keep on building to reach your dreams. We need to ride on our strengths or what we know we have an advantage over. This takes years to develop a skill better than others.
Riding on your strength is riding the wind. Like a boat, if you let the wind carry you, you be able to go much faster and easier. However, without proper practice and training, you don’t know how to catch the wind.

So even you success the miracle morning, you need to use the same determination so your strength will have time to grow and become unique.

Miracle starts in the morning. I m trying to concentrate in personal development:
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- silence
- Reading
- affirmations
- visualization
- journaling
- exercise

Doing these...

我们一般都认为太久的事也控制不了不应想太多，所以我们的计划往往都只限于一两年的事。但你试想想，一艘船若果从来没有目的地，它又怎能到达呢？ 只会在海里不断转圈，没有结果。

一个一两年的计划确实是比较实在，但你的幻想太实在根本不够刺激，做起来也不够起劲。所以我认为我们应该多思考30年后你将会是一个多伟大的人！是一件很美妙的事！

​我看过很多的书籍，总结了以下一些方法把你的梦想实现，敬请留意。

​你有否发现在地铁时，你身边的人都在快跑，冲入门口，你也跟他们一起跑进去了。但其实你预早了时间，并不赶急。
人是被群体带动，煽动思想的动物。他们会在群体效应下失去理性。你会在压力下被迫跟其他人有一致的行为表现。


你有否试过在会议上，你有话想说，但却不敢说出口？我们考虑到我们的地位，整体环境的气氛，环境是否陌生。
可以在开会前，把整个会议过程思考一遍，并于开会前决定你的立场，是准备坐着等时间过？还是预备提供价值？你的定位会决定你的行为。


在开会前，你也可以试试幻想，在整个会议里，你一言不发，你想吗？
幻想这会议再开一次，你的选择是什么？趁着现在这事还未发生时，做对的选择！因为真的会议没有开始！


Live life as if a second time. What would you do? Viktor Frankl
我也是靠着这句话，在很多事情未发生前，如果我把这事情再做一次，我会如何选择！我不会因为恐惧而退缩，我会更勇敢做应该做的事。


有时我们说话太快，有时我们想说却不敢说。为自己增加宁静的时间及空间思考，在说话太快的情况下反思，为下一次作好准备。


在有话不敢说的时反思，放胆试一次，让体验跟你说话，不要每次留下后悔，悔恨自己没有行动。试想想其他人在这场合说话时，又被记下多少呢？一星期什么也忘记了，记得的只是当时人自己而已，对吗？