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Day 519: Inspired by Miracle Morning- Would love to get your opinion ( Sep 18,2019)

9/18/2019

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Inspired By Hal Elrod after his book Miracle Morning, I was crazy and honest enough to write a letter asking for feedback about my weakness. The letter below is what I wrote. I sent it to 10-11 family, friends and colleagues. I was brave enough to send within my company, to my immediate supervisor and team member. However, they didn’t feedback to me ( I desired their feedback actually)

The crazy letter....

Subject: Would love to get your opinion
Dear friends and family,
Thank you so much for reading this email. This isn’t an easy one for me to send, but it is extremely important to me, so I sincerely appreciate your valuable time reading ( and hopefully responding to) it.
This email is going out to only a select group of people. Each of you knows me well, and I’m hoping will give me honest feedback about my strength and most importantly, my weakness ( also known as ‘area of improvement’)
I’ve never done anything like this before, but I feel that for me grow and improve as a person, I need to get a more accurate picture of how I’m showing up to the people that matter most to me. In order to become the person I need to be to create the life and contribute to others at the levels that I want, I need your feedback.
So, all I m asking is that you just take a few minutes to email me back with what you honestly think are my top two/ three ‘ area of improvement’. If it will make you feel better to also list my top two / three ‘strengths’ ( I m sure it will make me feel better), you are definitely welcome to. That’s it. And please don’t hold back anything. I will not be offended by anything that you share. In fact, the more honest you are, the more leverage it will give me to make positive changes in my life.
Thank you again, and if there is anything else I can do to add value to your life, please let me know.
With sincere gratitude,
Herbert

The crazy letter....comes powerful feedback ( I love it)

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If you like to know how I start writing the letter (go here) , it is how  I found my fear and act upon it
Herbert Yau, property entrepreneur and a motivation speaker
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Day 484: Miracle Morning 5am 30 day challenge ( Aug 14, 2019)

8/14/2019

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5am sends a very strong message

Do you know why is it 5 am?

5am send a strong message to yourself. It shows that you are willing to turn your life upside down to make a change for your life.

It sends a strong message of determination that you have to make something happen. The behaviour speaks for itself that your mind can will your body to do whatever your mind thinks. So, you feel powerful.

It is message that you tell yourself that you are strong, you are good, you have confidence, you are in control. A message of self-affirmation because what you promise yourself to do, you make it happen.

5am is a good time. It is a new idea. It is exciting. People will think you are crazy. You feel proud achieving it. It changes your habit. It motivates you to change.
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5am sends a message to your friends, colleagues or even your staff. It shows your commitment, your self-control. You get respect. It tells them that you are trustworthy, whatever you want to do, you will have great influence on them. So it can help if you need to work with them, influence them or even lead them.

  • Ride your wind to win, What does it mean?

Doing the miracle morning can keep you feel energised and motivated.

The key is always persistence. We shall not expect that the 30 day challenge would get us what we want. We shall see it as a sign that we get to hang to take control of our own destiny.

I believe no success will come in an instant. You would have to keep on building to reach your dreams. We need to ride on our strengths or what we know we have an advantage over. This takes years to develop a skill better than others.
Riding on your strength is riding the wind. Like a boat, if you let the wind carry you, you be able to go much faster and easier. However, without proper practice and training, you don’t know how to catch the wind.

So even you success the miracle morning, you need to use the same determination so your strength will have time to grow and become unique.
Miracle starts in the morning. I m trying to concentrate in personal development:
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- silence
- Reading
- affirmations
- visualization
- journaling
- exercise

Doing these...
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Doing affirmations, visualisation, journaling at the park with some sunshine
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Day 291 - 從未來30年開始計劃( Jan 30, 2019)

1/29/2019

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我们一般都认为太久的事也控制不了不应想太多,所以我们的计划往往都只限于一两年的事。但你试想想,一艘船若果从来没有目的地,它又怎能到达呢? 只会在海里不断转圈,没有结果。

一个一两年的计划确实是比较实在,但你的幻想太实在根本不够刺激,做起来也不够起劲。所以我认为我们应该多思考30年后你将会是一个多伟大的人!是一件很美妙的事!

​我看过很多的书籍,总结了以下一些方法把你的梦想实现,敬请留意。

Step 1
Visualisation 形象化

Step 1
Visualisation 形象化
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把你想达到的目标形象化,图像化,把它展现在你的眼前,令你在脑海里充满着这些画面,很多书籍形容他为潜意识 (subconscious),我想潜意识的意思,就是在你不知不觉间脑海也会浮现着这意念。而不需要集中地思想一步一步的才会展现出来。
而我的个人经验而说,当你连续地看同一个形象,内含着你的目标。事实是会不断提醒你作出行动。驱使你每天努力作出行动追求。

“任何达到的目标可以图像化”
无论是物质,或是想拥有一个崇拜的偶像的特质 (比如说,富爸爸的理财智商),一间理想的居所,甚至是想赚到钱的数目,都可一一活现眼前。这些图像每天提醒你要行动,把理想想拉近一步。

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你会被旁边的人影响你的决定,你需要宁静的时间思考

12/18/2018

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​你有否发现在地铁时,你身边的人都在快跑,冲入门口,你也跟他们一起跑进去了。但其实你预早了时间,并不赶急。
人是被群体带动,煽动思想的动物。他们会在群体效应下失去理性。你会在压力下被迫跟其他人有一致的行为表现。


你有否试过在会议上,你有话想说,但却不敢说出口?我们考虑到我们的地位,整体环境的气氛,环境是否陌生。
可以在开会前,把整个会议过程思考一遍,并于开会前决定你的立场,是准备坐着等时间过?还是预备提供价值?你的定位会决定你的行为。


在开会前,你也可以试试幻想,在整个会议里,你一言不发,你想吗?
幻想这会议再开一次,你的选择是什么?趁着现在这事还未发生时,做对的选择!因为真的会议没有开始!


Live life as if a second time. What would you do? Viktor Frankl
我也是靠着这句话,在很多事情未发生前,如果我把这事情再做一次,我会如何选择!我不会因为恐惧而退缩,我会更勇敢做应该做的事。


有时我们说话太快,有时我们想说却不敢说。为自己增加宁静的时间及空间思考,在说话太快的情况下反思,为下一次作好准备。


在有话不敢说的时反思,放胆试一次,让体验跟你说话,不要每次留下后悔,悔恨自己没有行动。试想想其他人在这场合说话时,又被记下多少呢?一星期什么也忘记了,记得的只是当时人自己而已,对吗?


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穷爸爸富爸爸的案例

12/13/2018

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穷爸爸富爸爸的案例


我要建立一间state of the art hotel project at mui wo (梅窝)。我听到一个故事是一本韩国翻译书由“本粥”的创办人写的名叫“不屈不挠”。
当时,她想为在外回到韩国的宣教士做一点事,有些宣教士回到本国没有固定居所也没有收入,但他们一生为主付出。一开始他把她母亲的住处变成宣教士的宿舍,由1间房变成6间房,再由6间房变成20个套房。
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Building from scratch, committing yourself to 10 years

4/10/2018

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Building from scratch, committing yourself to 10 years

Jack Ma: "If you want to be successful tomorrow, it is impossible, if you want to be successful a year later, it is impossible. But if you want to win, 10 years later you have a chance."

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