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Day 555:捱罵的人還比鬧人更過得好 (Oct 25, 2019)

10/25/2019

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捱罵的人還比鬧人更過得好

上了心理學4年,2015年開始的,最近是公開演講的培訓。題目是用4個段落去分享主題
1. 知覺
2. 省察
3. 治療
4. 痊癒
主題: “捱罵的人 還比鬧人 過得好”。

​(知覺)鬧人就是強者?

我覺得喜歡大聲鬧人嘅人,看似有權力,有氣勢,好似佢一定是對,其他人是錯的模樣。

(省察)鬧人很焦慮

我察覺到佢地其實心情波幅大,應該係被當時的感覺支配,不受控制。我留意到佢地唔平靜,誇張地焦急😰同恐懼😱,事情發生在他們身上嘅時候,心情會一樣波幅,內心都容易受傷🤕️。好似:我爸爸在茶樓會鬧伙計,鬧佢地唔幫他沖茶,看到他也扮看不見🙈(可能真,可能假,我不知道)。看似在高的地位罵人,其實內心不安,覺得不被尊重,沒有地位。他受傷了。

(治療)佢慘過你

我地可能不止一次,更可能長期被呢d人傷害。其實佢比你慘,佢越激動鬧,佢恐懼都越多。代表佢每次傷害你時,佢也傷害自己(再加上佢應該都會鬧其他人)。最慘係佢唔知自己脆弱,係佢最脆弱的地方。
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(痊癒)你係幸運大贏家

成件事嘅事實係- 平靜嘅你比激動衝動嘅人更強大,需要治療嘅係暴躁鬧人那位仁兄,唔係你。
我嘅結論係:捱罵的人還比鬧人更過得好。如果你明白,也行出來的話,你係幸運大贏家,恭喜恭喜🎈
Think yourself to win. If you act like everybody. You become a nobody. 
So Be Like You. ​
Herbert Yau, property entrepreneur and a motivation speaker
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