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Day 555: Better be Weak than Angry (Oct 25, 2019).

10/25/2019

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​I have been spending my last 4 years studying psychology and I just taken a course to learn about public speaking and be a motivation speaker.
The mentor taught us 4 steps in structuring our presentation
- feeling
- observation
- correction
- remedy

Short Speech: Better be Weak than Angry


​The feeling of being angry

Those who are angry and yelled. They appear to be strong and tough. It looks like they are always right and others are always wrong. It does appear this way, but is it really true?

Anger is indeed Anxiety

These emotions reflect fear and anxiety, I feel that as if they were taken over by their emotions. I discovered they were not at peace, anxiety and fear were exaggerated in their mind. If an incident happen to them, they have also big emotions and likely to be hurt. It reminds of my friend when he was eating at a Chinese restaurant. He often feels that the waiter is not helping him with filling the tea bottle and the waiters ignored him purposely when he waved them for help. I can't confirmed if the waiters ignored him on purpose. He would often yell at them, he appears to be at a superior position. In fact it was insecurity that hurt them and caused the anger.

He is so poor

We are often a victim of these angry howlers not once but for an extended period of time. You think you are sick, in fact the howler's life is much worse. The angrier he gets, the poorer he gets. The angrier they yell,  the worse fear they have inside.  What it means is every time they yell at you, they suffer a lot from their inner emotions. I wouldn't think they would particularly yelled at you and you alone, the list seems endless, so he must get 10 times more depressed than you. The worst thing is they don't even realize such fear, that's really the worst that could happen in such situation.

You are the big winner

The reality is "being calm and peaceful" carries so much more than anger alone. Those who needs treatment are the ones who exploded and it is NOT YOU! My conclusion is "Better Be Weak than Angry". If you know and you are already following the peaceful path. You deserve a round of applause, You are the winner!
​​Think yourself to win. If you act like everybody. You become a nobody. 
So Be Like You. ​

Herbert Yau, property entrepreneur and a motivation speaker
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