Day 566: Observing jealousy and the right way to deal with it - learning from 8 year old kid ( Nov 4, 2019)

Praying for her isn’t difficult. Wish she have new experience in bj! Life is about trying, learning and appreciating what you think that is not so pleasant...so you find something new everyday.
Pray you could be happy living the present moment. You are healthy and capable and humble. I feel that you are constantly improving yourself. Being honest with yourself is the happiest. I thank god for giving you that power.


I pray that claire could learn more. That’s my experience of her yesterday:


Jealousy start to appear in claire. She called popo and ask her back early because she said olivia is taking popo too long and she didn’t like it.
I told her if you want someone to love you. It isn’t to stop other to get close to her. It is you to love her so she knows you love her, she love you back. Tho she say it out loud she is jealous. The feeling isn’t so strong because i don’t recognise the feeling overwhelmed her mind. She forget very easily.


Then, I taught her to cut mushroom. She was all by herself. Then I found out she cut it differently as I asked her to. she said it is better like that. I scold her for 3 reasons:

1. She never cook before she should listen to me
2. If she want it different. She can ask
3. She need to respect others and care about other feeling.

She so scared with her head down when I ask her to repeat what she done wrong. She say it her own words and is so precise. She is smart.


She so bored and I suggest to go down to buy her some food to cheer her up. Then she said she want to walk more after buying food. We walk further to the park finding out the swing is too small for her.
I told her she can’t watch YouTube too long and should figure out doing other stuff. Going outdoor and walk is a good one and I ask her to remember that


At night, she taught me to play Siri, so it can recognise my voice only. I tell Siri: Siri I wanna die. Siri say would you need some counselling. Then I said, Siri call 911. She super scared and turn off Siri.
She said this freak her out like a 8 of 10. Then she scaled I scold her for the mushroom cutting is 7 of 10 and popo yell at her is like a 5 or 6.


Anyways. I enjoyed those moment and I prayed that you can absorb yourself in the moment with them.
I wanna say I might be late for Olivia. But things is never too late.


I pray you always enjoy your journey and god told me over many people: life is supposed to be fun even during difficult situations.


May god look upon you !

Think yourself to win. If you act like everybody. You become a nobody.
So Be Like You.

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