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我是好爸爸- 10問題?

2/4/2018

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合成圖片 1 -以 紙代書
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合成圖片 2 - 買面包早餐
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原圖是百佳選購糖果
因禮拜日有些工作, 不能帶女兒拍照做學校日記。
星期一晚上發現要交功課,急忙幫她做了一些合成相片,把她貼在google 的圖片上。
今天跟同事說時大家都笑了!才發現要跟老師解釋避免這令女兒被罵!幸得老師體諒🎉🎉
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禮拜日還寫了十個問題問自己是否好爸爸,真慚愧!

原文: https://www.facebook.com/cyberportpark/posts/325657597944525
10個問題 - 我是個好爸爸?

1. 願意跟我摟在一起?

我留意到,我只會碰喜歡的人。我發現小朋友跟我身體接觸也代表他喜歡我。
我發現越愛他們會想擁抱他們,他們也是一樣。

2. 跟我一起有展現笑面嗎?

我問自己:「我比較願意聽誰說話?令我笑(開心)的人?還是令我不開心的人?」
我明白孩子對我「笑」的意義是多大。
我問:「我向誰笑?」就是「先對你笑」的那位。你能做到「先對人笑」嗎?那任何人都喜歡你
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3. 有沒有主動跟我說話?

說話跟笑有點不同。說話會令我更瞭解她們。如果你願意聽,她們便願意說。我跟他對話可以是8/2 嗎?我想做2。


4. 表現是拘緊還是放鬆?


5. 我判斷她們的做事情動機?

如果我覺得沒有,我可能已經傷害她們了。我自己也不察覺。有沒有記得罵完以後,才發現自己錯了?我有。我常幫他們假設答案。這假設的答案,一般都想他們是錯的一方。有熟悉的感覺嗎?


6. 我知道我喜歡什麼?

我有留意他們的偏好嗎?沒有!希望現在開始還不太遲。


7. 我有認真聽到他們感受嗎?

我跟孩子說話時,是想她們聽我話?還是想瞭解她們?是兩件事。
她們跟我說因為想我聽,不是想我講。
因為她們想有人瞭解她們的感受。我有用心聽嗎?


8. 我讓她們 還是她們要聽我?

權力的操控是人的本性。很簡單,我不讓他們,她們學到的是操控不是禮讓。


9. 我有用創意維繫關係嗎?

利用創意去發展好關係。如果我有用心,她們知道的。


10. 你有常常請他們雪糕嗎?
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這是說笑而已。不過也是一個指標,除非他們不喜歡。


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