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你有把問題轉到妻子身上嗎?

2/10/2018

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昨天提到夫婦問題,我發現我原來非常的心硬。我說不到我想挽救,因為我已經沒有力了。

我的弟兄團契建議,如果我想解決問題的話,先從自己著手。我以為我有,但其實我並沒有打開自己。我常常責怪她, 我計較我的付出。那3天旅遊的10000元台灣食飯錢,還深深的在我心裡面,從來沒有離開。

現在回想10000元,其實不是什麼一回事。

當我分享時,我的語氣是怨恨,道出對她的不滿,還有她忙不回家,罵女兒用兩條毛巾,衣櫃的衣服全是她的。
我說我不滿。其實,我只是逃避或是等什麼的,我只是沒有想過如何把事情改變。

他們說她邀請我去台灣旅行,是代表她願意改善關係。我需要跟她有共同語言,有點像是余德淳說家長跟小朋友的關係一樣。她去夫婦營也很給面子了。

我們也提到要知道對她的敏感語言,有人是服務,或禮物,或精神,或身體語言等等,從智慧的媽媽可以學到。

弟兄說:「從她喜歡的事做起,一起trx, 一起吃早餐是他們最享受的時候。」

最感動的還是他們每一個為我禱告。令我很感動。這是第一次,我很溫暖,我愛他們。我覺得父活在我們中間。感謝父的愛。

今早我發了訊息到我們群組:

「感謝你們的禱告。我看禱告真的大有能力。今天早上,太太在罵人的同時也顯出愛😂,我看我們的心也在軟化中。」

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