Day 525: buying a house with $0 savings & 100% bank money, 400 sq ft. before VS after (Sep 24,2019)9/24/2019
The ability to increase rent is through value creation. As the property size getting smaller and smaller, the room for using our creativity is also becoming smaller. I see opportunity in Mui Wo property because the price is cheaper, the size is bigger which allows creativity to run much wilder than the tiny 400 sq ft in Hong Kong Island. This is just a small demonstration. I 'm looking for an entire village house 2100 sq ft to go through this change therefore increasing value for the property as well as for the tenant who lives inside it
Living RoomLiving Room 2WashroomKitchenBedroomUnder the Staircase
Herbert Yau, property entrepreneur and a motivation speaker
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These few days I was thinking if I can skip a day or 2, or skip an item for a day or 2, e.g how about exercise other time, not in the weekend. I m taking care of my kids. How does that sound?
It sounds all logical. It is all the seemingly logical and sensible “explanation” that we get out of our commitments. it is often these excuses or poor habit that kept someone being successful. I don’t want no part of that. I m successful, man! I haven’t hold on to something for longer than a year. That might be the reason I m not successful. Recently I did much better. I finish 100 blogs but it took 9 months more than I planned. We often overestimate ourselves short term and underestimate ourselves long term. By the way, I m making purchase of my second property in Mui Wo no matter what. I m working on it. Inspired By Hal Elrod after his book Miracle Morning, I was crazy and honest enough to write a letter asking for feedback about my weakness. The letter below is what I wrote. I sent it to 10-11 family, friends and colleagues. I was brave enough to send within my company, to my immediate supervisor and team member. However, they didn’t feedback to me ( I desired their feedback actually) The crazy letter....Subject: Would love to get your opinion Dear friends and family, Thank you so much for reading this email. This isn’t an easy one for me to send, but it is extremely important to me, so I sincerely appreciate your valuable time reading ( and hopefully responding to) it. This email is going out to only a select group of people. Each of you knows me well, and I’m hoping will give me honest feedback about my strength and most importantly, my weakness ( also known as ‘area of improvement’) I’ve never done anything like this before, but I feel that for me grow and improve as a person, I need to get a more accurate picture of how I’m showing up to the people that matter most to me. In order to become the person I need to be to create the life and contribute to others at the levels that I want, I need your feedback. So, all I m asking is that you just take a few minutes to email me back with what you honestly think are my top two/ three ‘ area of improvement’. If it will make you feel better to also list my top two / three ‘strengths’ ( I m sure it will make me feel better), you are definitely welcome to. That’s it. And please don’t hold back anything. I will not be offended by anything that you share. In fact, the more honest you are, the more leverage it will give me to make positive changes in my life. Thank you again, and if there is anything else I can do to add value to your life, please let me know. With sincere gratitude, Herbert The crazy letter....comes powerful feedback ( I love it)If you like to know how I start writing the letter (go here) , it is how I found my fear and act upon it Herbert Yau, property entrepreneur and a motivation speaker Motivation blog: http://www.daddayout.com Face: https://www.facebook.com/yauherbert Insta: https://www.instagram.com/herbert_yau_day_out/ If you agree what i am talking about. please like me below.
It was August 12, 2019... I first started my 5 am Miracle morning challenge. I made it 30 days, in between, I was in Chiangmai for 5 days on a vacation, and another 1 day camp staying with my kids in Beas river jockey club. I never skip a day. I have a day waking up 5:30 and another day at 6:00 when I was in Chiangmai, so I don’t ruin my wife’s fun in Chiangmai going to bed too early.
My first presentation at BNI - May 27, 2014Herbert Yau, property entrepreneur and a motivation speaker
Motivation blog: http://www.daddayout.com Face: https://www.facebook.com/yauherbert Insta: https://www.instagram.com/herbert_yau_day_out/ How you stop masturbation? 戒打機(自慰)的秘密 我是一個打飛機(自慰)已經有30年的男人,多次嘗試戒掉也不成功。如果你願意將這文章讀到最後,而且不斷嘗試,你將會有成功戒掉打飛機(自慰)的一天。在這裏提到的所有方法,將隨着你不斷的尋找答案,失敗嘗試再失敗再嘗試,這些方法將日日再活現你的眼前。 我在12歲的時候便開始打飛機(自慰),在開始工作後不斷嘗試想戒掉打飛機(自慰)。但那些幻想的畫面十分吸引,在看到漂亮的女性時,不自覺想到他們沒有穿衣服的樣子。衝動隨之而來,回家後便會打飛機(自慰)了。 戒不掉到覺得感覺失敗 十多年來試過很多不同的方法也戒不掉,
10多年的時間想把打飛機(自慰)戒掉,但從沒有成功。內心的自我懷疑,及開始對自己的能力不確定,很多負面影響。 Affirmation and visualisation 使我改變 自我肯定及圖像想像法把飛機(自慰)打掉戒掉 5點鐘奇蹟早晨- 改變了我- 第28天沒有飛機(自慰) 我記得我開始戒掉打飛機(自慰)成功是我把我的習慣完全改變的時候。 我看到一本書關於奇蹟早晨( miracle morning by Hal Elrod) ,作者挑戰我30天內完成5點起床的六個習慣( silence, affirmation, visualisation, exercise, reading, scribbling - SAVERS. As used in the book...) 當時候我的正面思想已經訓練了一段日子(可能是三年了,當我在HKT 開始工作後),「只要我想,我沒有什麼不可以」我對自己說很簡單,做便做吧! 5點起床,沒有時間,胡思亂想 因為我把起床改為5點,我集中力全放在早點睡(9:30-10:00一定要睡),所以根本沒有在睡房想起打飛機的事,我通常在晚上睡覺前打飛機(自慰)現在已經28天沒有打,很久沒有試過了。因為當我幻想女生的模樣打飛機的時候,我通常是會到睡房處理掉的。 有一天,我跟自己說我是一個驕傲和正義的人(i’m a proud and righteous person)- 是自我肯定- affirmation,這是我目標,我是相信的,如何把這信念存進腦袋?我找一張相作為affirmation目標。我用了一張在活動中擔當着司儀的照片,樣子很有自信。 因為我要在人面前說話有說服力, 我夢想是做一個激勵演說家,我每一句都要是真心話,才能打動人心。那我才會感到驕傲及有正義感( I m a proud and righteous person)。就是這一句話令我不想打飛機(自慰),打飛機令我沒有自信及自我懷疑。
如何植入腦袋( 潛意識)? 然後我閉上眼睛幻想我打飛機時,那個猙獰淫賤的樣子,這樣子令我非常的沒有信心及可惡,令我不想再想起那個自己。 我把I am proud and righteous person ( affirmation ) 與我成功的樣子聯想起來,那個司儀的模樣(visualisation),再幻想那個可惡的樣子在遠方。 然後,我用那個自信的我,化成大砲(一個球),攻擊可惡的我,把它粉碎掉。這個畫面每天重複五次(約20-30天),令我每次想打飛機的時候,就想起那個成功的我,及那個淫賤的我,那我便不想再打飛機了。 解決「性」需要 性的需要是必然的,我們需要一個正常的關係及正確的方法。以前我跟太太的關係不好,這方面我走歪了。所以一直存在著打飛機(自慰)的問題。 所以,我也需要處理感情的問題。 然後,我確定要處理並明白她,雖然現在也有不滿。 我們不同,但我可以明白,也不需要怪責。如果怪責可以改變,事情多簡單。 首先,我們先處理自己- 慢慢不要急。慢慢想,事情一定可以解決,不要被負面思想控制。得力在乎平靜安穩。我會對自己說:i m an entrepreneur, nothing bothers me anymore. Thank you! How did I stop 30 years of masturbation & Jacking-off?I will make a video too ( stay tuned!) Recently I cured my 30 year masturbation problem. If you are willing to spend time to finish this article. It is only a matter of time you cure yours. My article will sink deep into your memory and when you tried every effort and failed, don’t give up! Your subconscious mind will get to work and dig into every information you have about curing masturbation. If you failed and persist through the failures, you will eventually come to your own masturbation solution. Note: Forgive me for the repeated use of the word “ masturbation” in all manners. I just want to make sure you find me when you sure masturbate! ( and looking for a solution) Never stop trying!昨天我於公司裏成為一個激勵演說家,我談到”never stop trying”。就是於2018年的時候,我們同時推廣三個演唱會。包括林奕匡, JW,卓韻芝。 當時我原本打算想如何幫助大家的推廣,我想到了不如每一位表演者為對方作出宣傳令大家接觸到的觀眾會更加多。 但這是一個不容易的idea。因為我們很少在明星的媒體上看到推廣其他明星的事。 當時大部份的組員也說不大可能。 但我仍然抱着嘗試的態度打了電話去問卓韻芝及林奕匡。原本是在大家的Facebook作出推廣。但卓韻芝卻有一個更好的建議,就是不如一起做Facebook live。 當時我們沒有預算,沒有地方,沒有講稿,沒有小編, 沒有道具,但是我們一一都克服了。 第一次的Facebook live不算太成功。因為我們沒有把社交媒體的帳號正確的使用,去增加瀏覽量。 第二次我們學乖了,我們做對了社交媒體的帳號處理,上次也因為沒有小編已有一點的dead air 的情況,今次就找了小編,就是我自己。當時有9萬人瀏覽。 到最近我問我的同事他覺得最好的一個項目是什麼? 就是這個沒有budget ,一開始不被看好, 自己一腳踢的項目。竟然是這同事心裏面最好的項目。 It makes me think about this Nike commercial: Don’t ask if your dreams are crazy Have fun!另外一點是”have fun” 我原本想說喜愛你的工作,喜愛你的同事,因為喜愛及不喜愛,只是一個選擇。 我是比較少見到喜愛一件事,但做出來的結果卻很差。喜愛跟表現差並不可能掛鉤。 我想藉着這樣勸喻新的同事,喜歡你的工作,在裏面尋找樂趣,你的工作自然做得好。但是,完全把該說的話忘記了。要研究如何可以把自己心裏所說的話真實的呈現出來,這就是一個成功的激勵演說家的表現。 Day 13: miracle morning 5 am challenge後記:我有因成功而失去謙卑嗎?
應該從謙卑及得勝的興奮中取一個平衡。 用得勝的興奮來鼓勵自己,但同時不要明白這些成功是因為神所賜並不是因為你的力量。 這令自己有正面的情緒,但沒有因一些小小的挫敗的感覺而懼怕。 5am sends a very strong messageDo you know why is it 5 am? 5am send a strong message to yourself. It shows that you are willing to turn your life upside down to make a change for your life. It sends a strong message of determination that you have to make something happen. The behaviour speaks for itself that your mind can will your body to do whatever your mind thinks. So, you feel powerful. It is message that you tell yourself that you are strong, you are good, you have confidence, you are in control. A message of self-affirmation because what you promise yourself to do, you make it happen. 5am is a good time. It is a new idea. It is exciting. People will think you are crazy. You feel proud achieving it. It changes your habit. It motivates you to change. 5am sends a message to your friends, colleagues or even your staff. It shows your commitment, your self-control. You get respect. It tells them that you are trustworthy, whatever you want to do, you will have great influence on them. So it can help if you need to work with them, influence them or even lead them. Doing the miracle morning can keep you feel energised and motivated. The key is always persistence. We shall not expect that the 30 day challenge would get us what we want. We shall see it as a sign that we get to hang to take control of our own destiny. I believe no success will come in an instant. You would have to keep on building to reach your dreams. We need to ride on our strengths or what we know we have an advantage over. This takes years to develop a skill better than others. Riding on your strength is riding the wind. Like a boat, if you let the wind carry you, you be able to go much faster and easier. However, without proper practice and training, you don’t know how to catch the wind. So even you success the miracle morning, you need to use the same determination so your strength will have time to grow and become unique. Miracle starts in the morning. I m trying to concentrate in personal development: - silence - Reading - affirmations - visualization - journaling - exercise Doing these... 今天我挑戰你完成以下的訓練: 取勝的決心你的心在說什麼?把內心負面廢話變成正面幫助自己的話! 你要有取勝的決心 我們如何對自己內心說話?你常說「我不可以」嗎?知道是為什麼嗎? 是恐懼! 這話是假的,並不可靠。因為你根本沒有試過,怎樣證明不可以?又算是你試過了?上一次也不代表下一次。 有看過小朋友騎單車嗎?他們不是最後是成功嗎?一次失敗不代表下次失敗 你會對自己說「可能我不夠好」嗎?我發現我以前常常對自己說「我不夠好」,因為很多時我們把失敗記住了,我們對失敗的記憶特別深刻。但是記憶其實並不可靠。 我有一個方法可以把這個「我不夠好」的想法改變過來。 你可以數數最近一年或二年,甚至小時候成功的例子也好,你一定會有的!有沒有成功完成什麼工作,有沒有完成什麼課程,小時候有什麼你做得很好的? 當時為什麼成功?是因為你努力是嗎?是因為你付出?是因為你覺得你可以?你有信心的,是嗎? 我告訴你:你成功因為你努力。 30 天挑戰 - 第二天 5 點起床完成6件事只要你願意,你就可以!今天我挑戰你完成以下的訓練: 30 天挑戰 - 第二天 5 點起床完成6件事 - Mediation ( 呼吸練習)- 20min - Reading (閱讀)- 30 min - Exercise (運動) - 30 min - Journaling (寫日記)- 30 min - Visualisation(目標圖像化)- 30 min - Affirmation (自我激勵及肯定)- 10 min 如果你不懂如何開始30 天挑戰,可以在下面留言👇🏻
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